I need help with my Social Anxiety Disorder?
ByShould I go see a psychiatrist? or a psychologist?
I am not really interested in meds, but in therapy…
What should I do?
Been there, and can say that for one, you will likely grow out of it with age. What really did it for me was after college I moved away to a brand new part of the country on my own, and started fresh, and through engaging in activities that once made me anxious I built self confidence.
Also, talk to your doctor. I was like you and not really interested in meds, and expressed this to her, and she talked to me about them a little more. She told me how they worked, and I changed my mind. I was prescribed Xanax on an as-needed basis, and only took it for situations for which I knew I would be very uncomfortable. I got these meds in my mid 20's and wished I had gotten them from my Dr. sooner. I can take them, and be in the experience without the "weird" feeling, and this allowed me to engage more and be a part of the group. The thing is, the meds kind of seemed to "show me the way", in that I would use them in a particular situation for a while, and after having gone through the situation with the pill, I would eventually do it without the pill, and remember what it is like to not feel the anxiety, and it helped to become comfortable in situations without hte pill ultimately.

4 Comments
March 23rd, 2009 at 12:54 pm
Call your local Social Services for recommendations.
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March 23rd, 2009 at 1:31 pm
Been there, and can say that for one, you will likely grow out of it with age. What really did it for me was after college I moved away to a brand new part of the country on my own, and started fresh, and through engaging in activities that once made me anxious I built self confidence.
Also, talk to your doctor. I was like you and not really interested in meds, and expressed this to her, and she talked to me about them a little more. She told me how they worked, and I changed my mind. I was prescribed Xanax on an as-needed basis, and only took it for situations for which I knew I would be very uncomfortable. I got these meds in my mid 20's and wished I had gotten them from my Dr. sooner. I can take them, and be in the experience without the "weird" feeling, and this allowed me to engage more and be a part of the group. The thing is, the meds kind of seemed to "show me the way", in that I would use them in a particular situation for a while, and after having gone through the situation with the pill, I would eventually do it without the pill, and remember what it is like to not feel the anxiety, and it helped to become comfortable in situations without hte pill ultimately.
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March 23rd, 2009 at 1:33 pm
If you can afford to, I would recommend seeing a psychiatrist. I, too, suffer from social anxiety. After seeing a doctor who refused to prescribe anxiety meds (and not being able to afford to see a psychiatrist), I just deal with it the best I can. I'm pretty much a shut-in and just deal with close family and friends, while avoiding contact with the public as much as possible. Obviously, treatment would be a better alternative.
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psyc student and social anxiety sufferer
March 23rd, 2009 at 9:14 pm
If you are particularly interested in therapy, seek out someone who is specifically trained in the treatment of anxiety-related disorders (such as social phobia). This might include psychologists, psychiatrists, and/or social workers, depending on the area in which you live.
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